I just posted nearly three dozen quality of life indicators for America. Most of the indicators show trends toward improving quality of life. In fact, putting all the indicators together, the worst time in America in the last fifty years was not 2005. It was sometime around 1981. Most of the indicators have improved since then.

Even so, I sense more pessimism and angst about the future in our culture than ever before. I usually get an incredulous response when I tell people about the indicators I have studied. One person I talked with was offended that I could even suggest things might improve. There are some deep emotions at work here.

So if things are so good, why do we feel so bad? The first possibility is that I have missed the mark. That is always a possibility, but I don't think so. We can quibble about individual indicators, but the overall assessment is valid. But I think there are hints within the indicators themselves.

I wrote that most of the social indicators show an improving trend. It is telling that the trends not showing improvement deal with the most intimate aspects of our lives: Marriage, family, and sexual activity. It is also interesting that one of the bestselling books of recent years is Rick Warren's Purpose Driven Life. There seems to be a deep hunger for connectedness and purpose.

Churn

The upside of our 21st Century economy is its speed and productivity. We have an unprecedented number of goods and services readily available at low cost. Our economy has enriched our material lives immensely and is now doing the same for many other parts of the globe that are integrating into the world economy.

The downside of our economy is the increasing level of "churn." Technology changes faster and faster, which means we have to learn "how to learn" faster and faster. The creation and "creative destruction" of entire industries is accelerating. People have to become ever more mobile to take advantage of opportunities. It is estimated that 1 in 5 people move across a county line each year. About 1 in 14 move across a state line. Life has become "uprooted." We are churning geographically as we move about in response to opportunities.

In short, people are earning more, achieving more, and being dislocated more. That leads to stress on intimate relationships starved of the support networks that used to sustain them. This "churning" gives us a ubiquitous sense of not belonging anywhere. As beings created for community, that is not a good place to be.

Shrinking World

Another aspect of our times is a shrinking world. With the rise of cable television over the past generation and the internet over the past decade, we are in ever closer contact with people and ideas that challenge our perceptions of our world. The rituals, values, and morals we took for granted seem vaguely challenged (sometimes not so vaguely.) Once again, community and belonging feel diminished.

Over Informed

The ever-present media of television, radio, and the internet have contributed in yet another way. Most of the time, there isn't much newsworthy to most people. The various media entities compete for eyes and ears 24/7/365. Sensational stories are what bring ratings. Consequently, there is a near obsession with sensational stories, and sensational usually means scandal or horror. We get endless coverage about a middle-class guy who murdered his wife, a girl murdered on a trip to Aruba, or wild parties at college campuses. Whether these events are truly more prevalent than in the past is debatable.

The Columbine High School tragedy is a prime example. I do not want to diminish in any way the events of that day. Yet, that event was endlessly portrayed as the unmistakable sign of growing youth violence in our culture. The facts show that 33 students were murdered at school that year. There were 34 murdered the year before that. For the previous decade, the number vacillated between 28 and 34. Had Columbine not happened, the rate that year would have been the low for the decade. The following years had about 12-16 homicides, and overall violent crime had significantly declined for a decade. Still, the visual image is more powerful than the facts.

Too Many Choices

Yet another issue brought on by our affluence is the availability of choices in just about everything we do. It is almost impossible for many to choose one direction without a gnawing feeling that they missed something by not making a different choice. Some seem to address this by trying to do everything and putting off making choices until compelled to do so. Others seem to wither in a state of paralysis, not choosing any direction for fear of making wrong choices. That also creates anxiety.

Something Else

I think all of the above contribute to our angst. (If you have some other theories, please let me know.) However, I think dynamics in our culture may require us to step back and take a longer view of what is developing. I believe we have been "here" before as a culture on at least four other occasions. I think we are more influenced by the oscillations of one generation to the next more than we realize.

I will look at the work of William Strauss and Neil Howe and their generational approach to understanding history over the next several posts. I will then tie that back to the social indicators I have presented. If you have read or heard about "Baby Boomers" and "Gen X" in the popular media over the years and have become jaded by the faddishness of these stories, I invite you to suspend judgment. I find that few people have taken the time to delve into Strauss and Howe and appreciate their perspective's intricacies, qualifications, and nuances. Unfortunately, what most people see and hear are people who have not fully appreciated what these two are saying. I hope you will join me in reviewing what their perspective might tell us about our times.


Comments

5 responses to “Why Do We Feel So Bad?”

  1. You’ve presented an idiosyncratic array of statistics — that have been very interesting, and together support your case.
    I’m curious what time periods you’d say shared some of our characteristics. (The generation hypothesis has some merit, though it is usually overstated in books I’ve read.)
    Personally I’m inclined to point to two or three factors to account for the gap between perception and the reality. (Most people I know, with some exceptions, would deny that your statistics were true and still have a sense that things are running down.) One you allude to is the various media — not just news, but internet, movies, music — all give us a warped reflection of ourselves. Another is feelings of purposelessness; this is complicated, but there seems to be a real sense of lack of direction and meaning. Part of that may be, as you indicate, disconnectedness . . . but it also seems to have other components. A third factor is one that I’m squeamish to say: but there is a perception that we as a society are in moral decline. Perhaps crime rates are lower, but personal morality, honesty, ethics, politeness all *seem* to be lower as well.

  2. “Idiosyncratic” hmm… at least that weren’t idiotic. **grin**
    The life expectancy and infant mortality variables are widely used as overall social indicators because so many aspects of culture have to be healthy for these numbers to rise. Suicide and crime are often used as evidence of breakdown in social order. Then we have the three basic social institutions apart from government: Family, education, and economy. I followed up with ethnicity and environment as the have emerged as important flash points in how we feel about our culture.
    I also limited the variables to be ones I could find trend data for. For instance I saw a story earlier this year that said PG movies out sold R movies for the first time in twenty years but I did readily find year by year stats that would allow me to chart this. I would also consider it to be a more indirect measure as opposed to instances of crime. I
    I new what the results would be on the life expectancy and mortality. I knew crime was down. And I knew some about the family variables but not all. With the other variables I wasn’t certain of their trends until I looked them up. I didn’t include any variables because I thought they would give a certain conclusion and I didn’t reject any because they didn’t. I have actually been a little surprised at the results.
    You wrote
    “…but personal morality, honesty, ethics, politeness all *seem* to be lower as well.”
    Yes. And I think you see some of what I am after. The question is who applies the definition of what something like personal morality is? You, like I, have certain code about morality that is shared by a large minority of people and opposed by another large minority of people. That other large minority sees any advancement in your morality as a decline in theirs. You and I feel the same way when the other groups prevail. Stalemate. Whatever measure I use about half the people will disagree with my assessment as to whether it is positive or not. Neither group can make their values prevail as each pushes ever harder to have them prevail. Thus, angst and anxiety.
    As to generational eras, I will write more about this next week. The four eras I have in mind that would be similar are (roughly) the 1930s, the 1850s, the 1760-70s and the 1670-80s.

  3. Sorry about the idiosyncratic comment . . . I suppose it did beg a justification of choices.
    I was only commenting on the inclusion of temperature statistics in the mix. Also, education is very hard to measure as the standards change over time. (Different things are considered important — and thus included, while others go by the wayside.)
    Personal morality has changed in many regards . . . whether each change is good or bad is perhaps a matter of opinion.
    Honesty and courtesy/thoughtfulness, however both seem to have lessened considerably. People have always, of course, lied — but lying was much less accepted and expected than it is today. (At least the society paid hypocritical lip-service — or maintained an ideal as a standard — of honesty.)

  4. No offense taken. Hanging around Emergent types I have learned that “idiosyncratic” should be worn as a badge of honor. **grin**
    I debated about whether to include the global warming stuff. There are so many who believe that our behavior is destroying climate and thus quality of life. However, if you don’t by the human factor in climate change it is not a quality of life issue in the sense I have being talking about. I included it to exclud it … if that makes any sense.
    You will get know quibble from me about manners changing. However, I think there have been other times when we have been as vile. I hope you check out the posts ahead.

  5. You know . . . it never occurred to me. I actually have many friends who lie awake at night worrying about climate change. For them this would be a quality of life issue. I never thought to view it that way.
    While I’m inclined to agree that human activity has caused environmental damage, I don’t agree with the CO2 / increasing greenhouse effect model. (Or, at least, I don’t believe the figures that have been bandied about concerning this.)

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